Posts by assadsaif
How to Set Boundaries with Wisdom and Grace
You can do this. The Bible gives strong support for setting wise and healthy boundaries, especially in relationships marked by manipulation, conflict, or ongoing harm. Boundaries are not unloving. In many cases, they are an expression of wisdom, truth, and peace. Four ways to think about it First, Scripture teaches us to guard our hearts.…
Read MoreLeading with Integrity, Not Performance
Lead with Integrity, Not Performance In today’s world, leaders are constantly tempted to perform. We curate highlight reels on social media, polish presentations for boardrooms, and strive to appear more successful than we really feel. But performance-driven leadership rarely lasts. True leadership—whether in business, ministry, or family—comes from integrity. As a leadership coach in San…
Read MoreMarriage Resources
Do you need help with your marriage? If you are reading this, my aim is to help you Engaging in a marriage relationship with another human being will be the most rewarding and most difficult thing you will do in your life. Almost every human being on the planet is not prepared…
Read MoreLeadership Pipeline
The Leadership Pipeline Why do you need a leadership pipeline? The leadership pipeline is one of the most critical pieces of the organizational culture with the least amount of attention typically given to it. You need a leadership pipeline if you want to develop anything beyond yourself. This applies to the for profit and non-profit…
Read MoreWhat do Church Elders do?
The Bible has much to say on the topic of what it means to be an Elder. I recently read a book by Alexander Strauch titled Biblical Eldership, and it did a good job of explaining many things regarding what Biblical Eldership can look like in the church today. Here are some questions and answers…
Read MorePsalm 5 | Righteous Justice
Psalm 5 Hear my prayer. Listen to me… This is how Psalm 5 begins. Sometimes I pray to God but am not sure he listens to me. So I ask more intensely “God please listen to me…” Do you ever feel that way? I have thought these words so many times I have lost count.…
Read MoreAssad’s Reading List
This is not an exhaustive list of everything I have read in my life, however it is a current list of recommendations I would hand out. It may change a I continue learning and growing. I hope it is a help to you on your journey. Spiritual Formation The Gift of Being Yourself –…
Read MoreMake Grace Your Space
“Making Space” is a fundamental part of showing hospitality. The question is what kind of space are you making? This post was initially titled “Resist Legalism”, however, I found this photo and liked the new title more. Making grace your space will allow you to invite more and more people into relationship with yourself and…
Read MoreRest, Restore, Reconnect, Rejuvenate
Rest, Restore, Reconnect, Rejuvenate I have been traveling for well over a month now… It has been exciting, challenging and restorative in a few ways. As a family we have been on the go for just over three weeks and it has been a great time filled with many discussions, meals, walks, hikes and more.…
Read MoreGod of Differences
In Israel, as an American Pastor from Middle Eastern descent… I am not warmly welcomed. However, I am welcomed. It is an interesting tension I choose to embrace. On the one hand, my name causes me strain at Passport control due to its strong Muslim sentiment. Literally my name means “The Happy One, Mohammed’s Sword”…
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